Star children: an open heart for grief and memory in Pfaffenhofen

Star children: an open heart for grief and memory in Pfaffenhofen

Pfaffenhofen an der Ilm, Deutschland - In Pfaffenhofen, the focus is on a very special topic, namely the star children. These children, who died before, during or shortly after birth, leave indelible traces of love and hope in the hearts of their parents. The Hospizverein Pfaffenhofen has set itself the task of offering these families special support in the summer months. On their website, the association reports that they have launched an open group for affected parents and relatives. Here is room for open conversations, listening, telling and also for silent moments. This offer is intended to help find individual ways in dealing with the loss and at the same time to offer a protected framework in which the grief can develop In its communication, it makes it clear .

The parents concerned often face the challenge of dealing with the severe emotions in an environment that is characterized by the dismay and helplessness. Many feel isolated and find it difficult to access the right conversations. It is important that you know that help and support are available in the form of conversation groups and grief support. For example, the Hospizverein Erlangen has a similar offer that gives parents of star children the opportunity to talk about their deepest feelings and experiences. In these groups there is sufficient space for grief and at the same time an attempt not to lose sight of life emphasizes the Family ABC .

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The next appointment of the Sternen Children's group in Pfaffenhofen is already certain: On Thursday, September 18, at 7 p.m., all mourners are cordially invited, regardless of how long the loss is. No registration is required and participation is free of charge. If you need more information, you can contact the hospice association on 08441/82751 or by email to Buero@hospizverein-pfaffenhofen.de.

The experience of therapist Anja Giesselmann shows how important it is to allow the pain of grief. She has accompanied numerous families in similar situations and deeply shaped her own history - the loss of her unborn daughter. Their approach to offering parents a protected space in which grief and love find their place is of great importance. Giesselmann is convinced that healing is possible if you face your feelings and use enough time to process this pain she refers to the strength of forgiveness and pain .

A showcase that is currently being revised at the hospice association should also provide information about the topics of hospice and mourning work and stimulate to talk more about these often hidden topics. This mindfulness is valuable to raise awareness of the needs of affected families and to promote an open discussion culture.